Thanks for nice reply, really I am looking for some friends who show me how to do reconciliation with your "previous" life and start to "enjoy" a new life with MS. I read the book and I picked up that this kind of exercise is very useful to general healing, so I am just searching for some advice.
I read nice article in the MS magazine "in Touch" about couple when a men has MS and his wife is a full time carer. He is still quite mobile. They travel, do fishing and seems to have nice life. I am simple jealous. I do not know how they can make it from disability and carer pension. Oh I forgot their children are independent now, it makes probably big difference. I am doing what I can do but unfortunately there still is a stress that from person who give I become a person who take, but there is none out there who can give me much help, my wife is exhausted, my kids are quite young, my family is far far away (but that is good
). Thing went a bit different that I planed, and it is my responsibility to worked out the best possible solution, I am nearly there with OMS but sill far away with daily living.
So If anybody can share some suggestion I will highly appreciate it.