S4E15 Coffee Break with community member Regina Beach

Geoff Allix (00:00): 

Welcome to Living Well With MS Coffee Break, a part of the Living Well with MS podcast family from Overcoming MS, the world’s leading Multiple Sclerosis healthy lifestyle charity, celebrating its 10th year of serving the MS community. I’m your host, Geoff Allix. 

 

Today, you’ll meet someone living with MS from our diverse and global Overcoming MS community. Our Coffee Break series invites you into the lives of each guest. They share their personal MS journeys, and speak openly about their challenges and victories, large and small. We hope you find some common cause and a source of inspiration from the stories of these very special people. 

 

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Welcome to Living Well with MS Coffee Break #32, where we are pleased to welcome Regina Beach as our guest. Regina is an American living in the Welsh Valleys with her British husband. She was diagnosed with Relapse-Remitting MS in April 2021 and adopted the Overcoming MS program shortly thereafter. She’s a yoga teacher and writer who regularly leads workshops and publishes poetry and essays. She enjoys cooking and is writing an oil-free vegan cookbook with her husband. She also works part-time as the Trusts and Community Fundraising Manager for Overcoming MS. Prior to diagnosis, she was an avid long-distance cycler. Her goal is to feel strong enough and balanced enough to get back in the saddle. 

 

Regina, welcome to Living Well with MS Coffee Break. We’re very glad to have you on our program. So the purpose of this series is to get a better understanding of the members of our community from around the world, and today you are in the hot seat. So, could you tell us a bit about your day-to-day life? 

 

Regina Beach (02:12): 

Sure. Thanks, Geoff, for having me. I am American, but I do live in the UK. So, my day-to-day life takes place in South Wales where I am a writer, a yoga teacher, and I also work part-time for Overcoming MS as the Trusts and Community Fundraising Manager, which means I help people who want to do a charity bike ride, or a race, or if they want to sell something, or raise funds for OMS. I help in whatever way, sending out swag, helping promote and advertise, and working with some really cool OMSers doing amazing things. 

 

In terms of my day-to-day, I was diagnosed with Relapsing-Remitting MS in April of 2021, so not that long ago, and so I am still in the middle of figuring out what works best for me and how to fully embrace the OMS lifestyle. I jumped in right away about a month after diagnosis, I found the website, devoured it, and soon after got the book, read it, joined the Facebook group. I really feel like this is the pathway back to health, or to living as well as I possibly can, for me. 

 

Geoff Allix (03:40): 

So how was it being diagnosed mid-COVID pandemic? I’m guessing that’s made a difference. 

 

Regina Beach (03:50): 

Yeah, absolutely, because I really put off getting the tingles in my feet checked out for a long time. I wasn’t really in pain; I wasn’t really having mobility issues. I was just having lots of numbness in my feet. And since I had been extra active in 2019, I did miles of swimming, biking, and running, I thought I was just experiencing some overuse residual something. And I really put it off and put it off, and it wasn’t until my acupuncturist was like, “Your cold tingly feet, really, I haven’t been able to do anything about this. I really think you should go to your GP and get some blood work done.” And I’m really glad that she said that because I think, especially for people who like to tough it out or who are used to doing physical things and maybe having their body have adjust to stuff, I really wasn’t thinking that I had something neurologically wrong with me. 

 

And so then, obviously it took a little bit of time to check, I didn’t have low B12, I didn’t have low iron. My GP thought maybe I had a pinched nerve and just ordered a cervical MRI, and then eventually a full MRI. And then I ended up in the hospital for a week because I was having, I guess, a big relapse where I really had some terrible symptoms, and was losing mobility, and ended up with the diagnosis about a year after I really first started having those tingles. So, I do feel like I’m getting good care now, but I feel like the road to finding that diagnosis and really finding my way was definitely prolonged because of the pandemic. 

 

Geoff Allix (05:38): 

And I think MS is a difficult one anyway, because it’s not like we have a key symptom. Most things you can say, “Yeah, that’s likely to be that because you’ve got this key symptom.” We’re like, “Well, actually it could be anything.” Your nerves do everything in your body, and we’ve got a problem with our nerves, so it could be, people have got eye problems, walking problems, bladder problems, temperature problems, pins and needles problems, and they’re all MS. So yeah, it is really difficult. 

 

Regina Beach (06:07): 

Yeah, exactly, and you don’t necessarily think of, “Oh, I need to pee all the time,” as being connected to this idea that the grip in my left hand is not as strong as it used to be. You don’t make that connection naturally, I think, because MS symptoms can run the gamut. 

 

Geoff Allix (06:25): 

So, when did you come across OMS? How did you find out about OMS? And how did that go for you? 

 

Regina Beach (06:33): 

My whole life, I have said, “If I ever get really sick,” kind of jokingly, “I’m just going to become a monk and be a vegan and live in the woods.” And so obviously, one of the first things I Googled was, what’s the best diet for MS, because I understand that what we put into our body is the molecules that we become. And so I thought, okay, someone has got to have been doing research on this, and so I came across Swank, and then came across Jelinek, and then the evidence was just so compelling to me. I spent a month researching recipes, getting rid of stuff in the fridge, overhauling things. 

 

My husband’s been really wonderful and has changed his diet too, so we cook together. We’re writing down our recipes and compiling a cookbook. We have an Instagram where we post recipes. It’s been really fun, and it’s been a huge change because I used to really love cheese and dairy, and my husband used to be big into smoking meats and grilling meats, and so we’ve just done a 180 with our meals, and it’s really helpful to have somebody to co-plan with and cook with. 

 

Like last night, we had some smoked fish and veg, and it’s actually really amazing what you can do, cooking without oil, that I had no idea was possible. So I’m actually really happy that we found this. He’s a triathlete and has found a lot of benefits from the diet portion of Overcoming MS as well, and I’ve always been a meditator of sorts, but now I feel like it’s really key, and I definitely carve out the time more than I used to for that component. 

 

And yeah, I do take a DMT, and I’m hopeful that with everything together, I’ll get some more mobility back because I walk currently with two sticks, and I’m really hoping to one day be able to walk without a mobility aid. 

 

Geoff Allix (08:42): 

Yeah. That was the next thing I was going to ask actually, so you are listed as having significant disability on the EDSS scale. So what’s two sticks? That’s somewhere up like four and a half, five, or something on the scale? 

 

Regina Beach (08:55): 

Yeah, so I don’t leave the house without at least one stick and it really just depends on how my balance is feeling that day. And sometimes, if we’re at a museum or if I’m out and about in a big public arena, I’ve used a wheelchair before, just because walking long distances is really tough for me. And that was really heartbreaking because it was something that, hiking and long-distance trekking are things that have been a really important part of my life up to this point. I did the Camino de Santiago, and I’ve done a lot of long-distance cycle trips across Europe and Asia and North America, and I feel really lucky that I was able to do those things. But yeah, so being in this new body of mine that doesn’t function the same way, and is really slow, and I have foot drop on the left side, and it’s really a big adjustment, and I don’t think I’m totally there. I dream of running sometimes, or I dream that I can walk. 

 

Geoff Allix (10:08): 

Literally in your dreams? 

 

Regina Beach (10:09): 

Literally in my dreams. 

 

Geoff Allix (10:10): 

I have that as well. Some people say, “Does that make you sad because you’ve lost it?” And it’s actually no, when you half wake up and you’re just coming out of a dream, if I’m getting back to sleep, I’m just like, “I’d love to get back into that dream again,” the one where I’m running around. 

 

Regina Beach (10:25): 

Yes. 

 

Geoff Allix (10:26): 

Because it’s like memories of what used to be, and very similar stuff I used to do, like do a lot of mountain walking and hiking and cycling and stuff. The things now that I think would be an amazing achievement, whereas before it would be climbing Mont Blanc or something, now it’s like, something less daunting. I mean, if I can do something like Snowden, or something that’s not a hard mountain, that would be such an achievement for me. I mean, I don’t know if it’s achievable because I’m not really, I’m similar to you, I always take a stick when I go out, but I’m not ruling out that I can get a bit better. 

 

Regina Beach (11:04): 

That’s how I feel. 

 

Geoff Allix (11:06): 

There are people I’ve come across, who like me, think those aids, they’re not disabling, they’re enabling. So, using mobility aids, and certainly, yeah, so I’ve got an E-Trike that I use partly also as a mobility scooter sometimes because I can just put it a walk mode and just trundle along. Because I just, yeah, the distance is the problem really, whereas I’d love to go on a city break where I just wander around all day. But now I- 

 

Regina Beach (11:39): 

I love that, yes, where you’re just walking miles and miles and seeing all the things, and now you have to be a little more deliberate about where you’re going to go, how long is it going to take, and where can you take a rest? But it doesn’t mean you can’t do it. So I was really nervous to take my first international trip since having mobility issues, but my husband and I went to Egypt over Christmas and New Year’s, and it was amazing how much we were able to do and how accommodating people are when you just explain the situation, and how much people want to help and make things as easy as possible. So, we did a snorkeling trip and everyone on the boat was super helpful because that is, as someone who has balance issues, it’s a nightmare to walk around on a boat. 

 

Geoff Allix (12:27): 

Yeah. Well I’ve been scuba diving twice since I’ve had MS. 

 

Regina Beach (12:27): 

Nice. 

 

Geoff Allix (12:33): 

Yeah, I’ve been scuba diving in Costa Rica and in Thailand, because I used to scuba dive a lot, but actually I thought, well, why not? Because there’s not a balance issue. 

 

Regina Beach (12:33): 

Yeah. Once you’re in the water, it’s great. 

 

Geoff Allix (12:44): 

Yeah. And actually when you’re scuba diving, you don’t really, really, it’s not a lot of exertion, because otherwise you use up all your air basically. So you are trying to do everything in a very gentle motion, so I still have the skills, and yeah, the problem is getting on and off the boat. On the boat, because it’s moving around, there’s loads of stuff to hold onto because everyone’s got to hold onto stuff, so actually it wasn’t that bad. So yeah, I could do that, and that was really cool. 

 

Regina Beach (13:11): 

Yeah, and it is just about finding what you can do and leaning into what you can do, and making new goals, like you said. There’s a little lake, we live right near the Cwmcarn Forest Drive, and one of my goals is to make it around that whole little lake without taking a break. And that is a very small goal compared to maybe what I used to be doing, but that’s fine, that’s where I’m at right now, and I’d rather be getting out there and trying for that. And also I just really appreciate my good days because, obviously, I used to take walking and running for granted, and now I’m like, “Oh, I feel great today. I’m definitely going to go out for a walk or for a little hike.” So there’s the small joys. 

 

Geoff Allix (13:58): 

Yeah. And the next question is, what are your thoughts on people with MS choosing other types of diets or lifestyle alternative to OMS? 

 

Regina Beach (14:11): 

Yeah, so this is really interesting. Since being diagnosed and disclosing my diagnosis, I’ve had a lot of people say, “Oh I have MS too,” or “I have another autoimmune condition,” which I think is really interesting, how much you don’t know about your acquaintances. I feel like disclosing brought me really close to some people who I had no idea also had things that they were dealing with. But I also think that it’s a really personal decision about how you’re going to self-manage your condition, and so I’ve definitely had to be firm, but kind, in my approach saying, “I’m sticking with OMS. This is what I want to do. If you want to do paleo, you want to do another diet, that’s fine.” 

 

I think it really comes down to how you feel and what you can stick with. And so anybody who is managing through lifestyle, I think deserves big kudos. Anyone who’s making these big changes in their lives, whether it’s adding exercise or mindfulness, or taking supplements, or whatever it is. I think we’re not really at odds with most of the other diets, they are mostly whole food based, they are mostly much healthier than the standard Western diet, and I think that you want to be encouraging, this idea that we have autonomy to make changes that aren’t just dictated from a neurologist or a GP, that we can do something for ourselves. 

 

Geoff Allix (15:46): 

Yeah, and I’ve spoken to people on different protocols, Mathew Embry, Best Bet Diet, talked to him, and the commonality is greater than the differences. 

 

Regina Beach (16:00): 

Much more. 

 

Geoff Allix (16:01): 

And with the Wahls protocol similarly, basically they’re all non-dairy, they’re all low saturated fat, they’re all whole food based. Now it may be that you have organic grass fed, lean meat occasionally on the Best Bet Diet. It may be that you have, gluten is okay on OMS, which is not on others. So there’s little bits on the edges, but the core bits are really the same, low saturated fat, whole food diet with no dairy, is basically common across all of them. And I think- 

 

Regina Beach (16:39): 

Yeah, and even Swank had low fat meat after year one on his original diet, which the OMS diet is built on, so there is so much that is in that same vein. 

 

Geoff Allix (16:53): 

Yeah. I think some people, as well, because there’s a lot of stuff with fasting now as well, and I think there’s a lot of interest in fasting. And the paleo diet, if you cut out all your carbs, then you put your body into a fasting state, but when you talk to the neurologist about this, when you are proposing this, they’re saying, “Oh yeah, we’re not actually encouraging you to just go on an Atkins diet because that would put you into a fasting state, but that’s not actually healthy. What you want to be doing is going to fasting state by reducing the time window you eat, or not eating for a day, a week,” these different ways of doing it, and then eating a healthy lifestyle. So there’s sort of like- 

 

Regina Beach (17:35): 

Yes, and not just putting yourself into ketosis for the sake of it by not consuming carbs, which are really in everything, and as long as you’re eating whole grains, is very, very healthy. That’s what so many cultures and indigenous people’s whole diets are based on, potatoes, or rice, or other grains. And I think cutting them out is, like you’re saying, it’s not healthy for the long haul. 

 

Geoff Allix (18:06): 

So, to change a little bit and talk about your professional life, you were a schoolteacher in the US, moved to the UK and live with your British husband, and now work part-time for OMS as the Trusts and Community Fundraising Manager, as you mentioned. So how did that transition come about? 

 

Regina Beach (18:27): 

Oh my gosh, I feel that life in Chicago, when I was teaching in public schools there, is a lifetime ago. I was really burnt out, it’s a really tough job. I really give a lot of praise to all of the schoolteachers out there, especially in these strange times. But I was really at a point in my career where I was turning into the type of teacher I didn’t want to be and needed to pivot, and so I decided to take a year to do a Fulbright Fellowship in Laos in Southeast Asia, and that was my last full year of teaching. I taught teacher candidates there, and that’s actually where I met my now husband, who was on a motorcycle adventure through Southeast Asia, and came back to visit me a couple times. 

 

And so, through that process, I was really thinking, okay, what is it that I really like? What is it that I really want to do? I did yoga teacher training. I became a lot more interested in mindfulness and moving meditation, and pivoted back to my first love, which was writing. I studied journalism in university, and really decided, okay, I want to pursue writing. And so some of my work with Overcoming MS is grant writing, and blog writing, and press releases, and I also write essays and poetry in my own time. And so, I’m just trying to carve out a life that’s more reflective of my values and what I really enjoy and what I want to spend my time doing. And I was kind of already in that mode when I was diagnosed, but since diagnosis, it’s been even more acute that, the time I have, I want to spend it focusing on the things that I really enjoy, and the things where I feel like I can make a big difference. 

 

Geoff Allix (20:31): 

So OMS is celebrating its 10th birthday this year, and you’ve got some special events upcoming, there’s various OMS birthday trivia, OMS big picnics, and other events. So could you tell us a bit about the events upcoming? 

 

Regina Beach (20:45): 

Yeah, so we’re really excited to celebrate a decade of the charity promoting the OMS program for people worldwide. And so, yes, the big picnic is a great way to get family, friends, your OMS Circle, involved in some outdoor fun, a barbecue, maybe, bringing OMS compliant foods, teaching people about what the diet pillar is about and why, and possibly even doing some fundraising for the charity. And we are going to do a big birthday quiz on Zoom this year, so that will be really fun, having people answer questions both about the program and also just fun trivia stuff. 

 

And so, this year is really important because 10 years ago, Linda Bloom decided that the OMS program needed a cheerleader. I feel the organization is a mouthpiece to help deliver the content and help people who have MS understand that there are thousands of us who are living better because we’re self-managing through the program. So, yeah, if you would like to get involved, email [email protected]. We’re really excited to celebrate. We’re celebrating the launch of the new brand, we’re celebrating what we’re moving towards in the future, and hopefully it will be another 10 years of growth and expansion, and yeah, great food and great fun. 

 

Geoff Allix (22:28): 

So my next question straddles personal and professional, so you’re a devout yoga and meditation practitioner, which you also teach, so could you tell us a bit about how that’s helped you? How that yoga and meditation side of things has helped you, and share some tips to others about how they could get into a daily meditation practice? 

 

Regina Beach (22:50): 

Yeah, for sure, so I used to teach a very yang, very physical style of yoga, the 26+2 Bikram series, which is done in a 40-degree Celsius hot room, which I can’t do anymore because heat really exacerbates my symptoms, and a lot of the standing series involves so much balance that it is just out of reach for me right now. So I really have had to adjust my practice and my teaching from this really intense [inaudible 00:23:24] to a much gentler, more yin, more long hold, more floor-based yoga. 

 

And so that was really tough for me at first, because obviously this is something I’ve been doing, I took my first yoga class when I was in university, I was 18 years old, it’s been with me for a long time. I’m trying to see it as, I have all of these years of experience, but now I have a beginner’s body where I can’t necessarily do all of the things that I used to do, and I’m now reteaching myself. 

 

And so, coming at it from that perspective, I feel has been really helpful because it’s just being curious about, what can I do today? Being curious about, how does my body feel today? And leaning into that, and saying, “Okay, this is how I feel. This is what I can do. This is how much I can do.” And just letting the rest go, and that’s where the mindfulness and meditation come in because we cannot force ourselves to do something that we’re not able to, and that doesn’t necessarily have to lead to frustration. I think that piece is so crucial, when you are able to accept where you are at today, then everything just floats a little better and we’re a little more at ease. 

 

I think you can do meditation no matter what you’re doing, whether you’re doing yoga, whether you’re just sitting mindfully, whether you’re drinking tea mindfully, whether you’re just taking a nice walk and observing the birds and the trees. I think all of that is just, what can I do? Where am I now? How am I feeling in my body? All of that is mindfulness. 

 

And I’m just appreciating where I’m at, and what I can do, and moving towards little goals to improve my balance, to improve my flexibility, and not necessarily treating my old body as the goal, because I might not be able to do all of those yoga asanas in the future, and that’s fine, that doesn’t mean I can’t deepen my practice. And for a while I was thinking, well, does this make me a terrible yoga teacher if I can’t do all of these poses? And I’ve come to the realization that people don’t actually care if their yoga teacher can do fancy arm balances, what they care about is if their yoga teacher can meet them where they’re at, and help them find comfort and ease, and a little bit of stretch and relaxation in their own body. And so that’s also been just a new version of my yoga practice and my yoga teaching. 

 

Geoff Allix (26:03): 

Yeah. I mean, Usain Bolt’s coach is not a world record runner, so you can teach without being at that level, can’t you? 

 

Regina Beach (26:13): 

Exactly. 

 

Geoff Allix (26:14): 

So, thank you so much for joining us on the Living Well with MS Coffee Break, and allowing the community to get to know you a bit better. So there’s one last question that we have that we tend to always ask people, which is, if you could tap into your experience with MS generally, and OMS specifically, for a nugget of wisdom to help people, particularly if they’re new to the OMS program, what would that be? 

 

Regina Beach (26:39): 

I think, really planning out who you’ll tell, and how, and what you need from those people you tell is really important because, for as strong as we all are, you need a community behind you. So whether you’re going to lean on your OMS Circle, or your family, or your friends, I think having a plan and knowing how you’re going to react when someone doubts that what you’re doing is helpful. Because I think as a newly diagnosed person, it can be really crushing to hear someone say, “Oh, there’s no proof for that,” or “Why are you doing that? That’s pseudoscience,” or whatever the negative, we always remember the negative more than the positive. And so building a community of trusted people, of people who are supporting what you’re doing, and having ways to deflect any naysayers, would just go a long way because the mental health aspect of having MS is no joke and it takes a village to keep people moving forward and living well, and taking care of all of these different components of the lifestyle. 

 

But we can do it, and we can do it together, and I think things like the podcast, and the OMS Circles, and all of the wonderful OMSers really do support one another. I think that’s the best part of this program, is the community. 

 

Geoff Allix (28:03): 

Thank you. And thank you very much for joining us, Regina Beach, and thank you for all your work that you do with OMS as well. 

 

Regina Beach (28:11): 

Thanks, Geoff, it was great to talk to you today. 

 

Geoff Allix (28:13): 

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